What is twin flame sexual attraction and chemistry really like?
There are countless articles out there about twin flames, but most of them don’t mention the intense and electrifying sexual connection a pair of twin souls tend to share. In reality, the sexual energy flowing between two twin flames is one of the key signs of a true twin flame connection.
This is not to say that all twin flame relationship are necessarily sexual – but most of them are. Sex is just one of the many intense ways in which the twin flame energy cord makes itself known and is strengthened.
With that being said, are you ready to discover everything there is to know about twin flame sexual chemistry and how it manifests?
What happens when twin flames meet
A twin flame relationship is always an exhilerating experience – not least because it is so rare.
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The love possibilities of a twin flame connection are vast and waiting to be explored by every twin flame couple that are fortunate enough to find each other.
The idea of twin flames or twin souls can be traced all the way back to the Ancient Greek philosopher Plato, who talked about every human soul being one half of a whole, and forever longing to find and merge with its missing, other half.
Meeting your twin flame is an extremely rare phenomenon. Per definition, it can only happen once in your lifetime. When it comes to twin flames, each of us only have one. By contrast, you may have more than one soulmate.
The connection is instant
When you and your other half meet, neither of you will have any doubt. It’ll be as though you instantly recognize each other, even if you’ve never met in this life before. There’s just something about the other person that feels instantly familiar and magnetic.
In most cases, the sense of connection you experience and share with your twin flame will be both physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. In other words, the connection is undeniable and exists on all levels of your being. The force of the attraction is so powerful that you’ll be unable to resist. You instinctually sense that this is a once-in-a-lifetime sort of chemistry, and that you cannot not act on it.
It’s about unconditional love and healing
The twin flame connection is all about experiencing unconditional love, and the sex-related energies being exchanged when a pair of twin flames have sex is the simplest manifestation of this truth.
When twin flames get together, they’ll have a profoundly healing effect on each other. Whatever traumas the other person may have experienced on their journey through life so far, their twin flame will be able to listen, hold space and frequently replace some of the confidence that has been chipped away. One of the many functions of a twin flame relationship is to remove old pain, fears, doubts, insecurities and so on.
It’s a rollercoaster ride
While twin flame relationships are undeniably wonderful, they can also be challenging and volatile. On some level, it is as though the sheer intensity of the connection is too divine and simply too much for mere mortal to handle. This is true even if you are highly spiritually evolved.
Early on in the twin flame relationship, you’ll only experience the positive aspects of the twin flame connection – the love, the healing, the feeling of being seen and accepted, and of course the mind-blowing sex. However, as soon as the relationship starts maturing or becoming more serious, the twin souls are bound to encounter real-world challenges.
Going into the different stages of the twin flame relationship is beyond the scope of this article, but suffice it to say that it is an experience rich in both highs sand lows. Eventually, most twin flame relationships fall apart and the twin souls go through a painful and often drawn-out separation.
During the separation stage of a twin flame relationship, the insane sexual chemistry that exists between the twin flames is usually one of the very things that keeps holding the relationship together and makes it almost impossible to walk away from – even when the separation is ultimately both necessary and good.
The top signs of twin flame sexual attraction
Twin flame sexual energy and chemistry can be almost alarmingly intense. The sexual pull you feel towards your twin flame is stronger and seems to exist on a deeper level than any sexual attraction you’ve ever experienced before.
Here are just a few of the signs and symptoms to watch out for when you’ve first encountered your twin flame.
Intensive thoughts about the other person
After meeting your twin flame, you won’t be able to get them out of your thoughts for more than a few minutes at a time.
Truth be told, the beginning stages of a twin flame relationship can be extremely disruptive, to the point where you may even find it difficult to get a proper night’s sleep or concentrate on work and other humdrum tasks. The fact that you’ve just met someone you are feeling aroused by and drawn to on a level you have never experienced before seems to override and trump everything else that is also going on in your life.
If you find yourself constantly thinking about your twin flame, this is one of the certain signs of a twin flame connection.
Even when you and your twin flame are not together in the same physical location, you’ll still both be feeling the presence and intimacy of the energy cord that exists between your two souls.
People report that the twin flame connection enables them to astral travel and engage in sex without any physical contact needed.
In some cases, two of you may have such harmonizing frequencies and such potent attraction that you find yourself able to have astral sex, which may feel almost or even just as real as physical sex. If you find yourself astral travelling and having psychic sex with your twin flame, this, too, is a sign of a real connection between a pair of twin souls.
Not all sign of a powerful twin flame connection are psychic signs – some are physical, and dilated pupils is one of the most prominent ones.
Dilated pupils is a common sign of intoxication. This perfectly corresponds to how it feels to be drunk or high on the intense chemistry and feeling of a twin flame connection.
Other physical signs and symptoms to watch out for include palpitations, feelings of elation, restlessness and difficulty concentrating on anything other than your twin flame and the relationship you are building with him or her.
The truth about twin flame sex
Now that you have a good overview over what the twin flame relationship is and what it does, it is time for us to get to the nitty gritty of discussing the sexual energy of a true twin flame connection.
It’s more intense than any sex you’ve ever had
The first thing you should know about twin flame sexual attraction and sexual experiences is that these are much more intense with your twin flame than anything you will have ever experienced previously.
Twin flame sex simply hits different. Sex with your twin flame will feel so different from ‘regular’ sex that it can barely be described as the same thing.
Your twin flame’s body will feel incredibly familiar
Your twin flame’s body is going to feel surprisingly familiar to you, from the first time you touch it. It’ll be more like reconnecting with and rediscovering a long-lost lover’s body than exploring a new lover’s body for the first time.
Your own body, in turn, will feel incredibly familiar to your twin flame. He or she will already seem to know what makes you feel good and what drives you wild, without many words having to be exchanged.
When you and your twin flame merge together and surrender to your shared chemistry and sexual energy, you’ll almost feel like an extension of each other’s bodies and souls. In other words, what would have been a mere sexual experience with anyone else becomes a transcendent, cosmic experience.
It teaches you about yourself
Your twin flame relationship, and not least of all the sexual aspect of it, is going to teach you things about yourself that you would never otherwise come to know or realize. You may discover things about your own sexuality, preferences or powers that you would be afraid to explore with anyone else but your twin flame.
One of the functions of a twin flame relationship is that it unlocks you. It helps you to come into your full potential and become all that you are meant to be – including sexually.
Twin flame sexual energy can also help you heal your flawed relationship with your own body. When you are with your twin flame, you’ll feel fully accepted and adored as you are – warts and all. Experiencing this level of acceptance may be the very thing that helps you accept and love yourself, too.
It brings strong sexual urges to the surface
Even if you haven’t previously considered yourself a particularly sexually driven or condident person, being in a twin flame relationship is really going to awaken this side of you. It may surprise you, and even shock you, what powerful urges are awakened and brough to the surface during a twin flame relationship.
Once you have experienced sex with your twin flame once, you’ll want to come back for more. The physical contact and energy exchange you experience with your twin flame is so intense and intoxicating that it makes most other things and certainly any past sexual experiences or encounters pale in comparison.
You my experience a Kundalini awakening
The sheer power of the physical connection and the intensity of attraction that exists between twin flames can sometimes trigger a spontaneous kundalini awakening in one or both partners.
Kundalini energy is a form of divine feminine energy described in Hinduism as the ‘serpent power.’ Kundalini energy is said to nestle at the base of the spin, much like a coiled up and slumbering snake. Kundalini energy is latent within us all. In most cases, it takes concerted effort to awaken and learn how to work with it. However, the energy that passes between a pair of twin flames engaging in sexual interaction can sometimes cause a spontaneous and unexpected kundalini awakening.
Going into great detail about kundalini energy and awakening is beyond the scope of this article, so suffice it to say that kundalini energy is a powerful and potent current of energy. When it awakens, it can initially manifest as an extreme surplus of energy and passion.
Ultimately, kundalini awakening can lead to renewed inspiration, clarity and a more developed sense of self. However, kundalini also has its risks and dangers – particularly if the awakening happens when you are not ready for it, as the case may be if your kundalini is awakened during twin flame sex.
When you’re in a twin flame relationship, you’ll find yourself constantly gravitating towards your other half. Whenever the two of you are apart, however briefly or temporarily, you’ll be longing for his or her touch, voice, smell and presence.
Because neither of you have ever experienced the same level of both physical and spiritual connection with anybody else, your two bodies and souls will simply crave being around each other – and merged with each other – as often and as much as possible.
There’s usually a chaser and a runner
One of the potential difficulties of twin flame sexuality is the fact that the twin flame dynamic usually includes a chaser and a runner. While both twin flames will be intensely and irresistibly drawn to each other, there’ll frequently be one of them who is reluctant to fully surrender to the twin flame connection.
There are many potential reasons for this. In some cases, one of the twin flames may already be in a relationship with someone else, or he or she may simply be afraid of the sheer intensity of the connection. Either way, the twin flame relationship, including the sexual aspect of it, will usually involve a significant amount of chasing and running. Needless to say, this may add heightened tension and potentially even heightened intensity into the relationship.
It usually involves some challenging aspects
Twin flame relationships are rarely smooth sailing. On the contrary, they tend to involve plenty of both highs and lows. All in all, getting into a twin flame relationship is much like getting on the wildest rollercoaster ride you can imagine, just spiritually speaking.
The fact that most twin flame relationships are eventually fraught with tension and conflict can make the sexual energy even more intense.
The makeup sex during the separation phase will blow your mind
This leads me to my next point: Sex during a twin flame separation can be especially mind-blowing.
It is no secret that most twin flame relationships eventually end up coming apart at the seams. The sheer intensity of twin flame love and chemistry simply cannot sustain a long-term relationship – or at least this is true in the vast majority of cases.
However, a twin flame relationship isn’t something you can just casually walk away from. Moore often than not, twin flames find themselves sucked back into each other’s orbit again and again before they finally manage to break it off for good. As a result, the breakup phase of a twin flame relationship is often a protracted affair that involves plenty of makeup sex.
Because both twin flames sense that their relationship is collapsing in on them, the sex they have during the separation phase is some of the most intense they have at any point during the relationship, infused as it is with intense longing and often more than a hint of sorrow and frustration at the prospect of the relationship ending.
It’s impossible to forget
If you have ever experienced the intensity and magic of a twin flame spiritual connection and sexual chemistry, you’ll never ever be able to forget it. Those moments and experiences are going to be with you forever.
You’ll have intensely erotic dreams long after the physical relationship has ended
Not only is a twin flame relationship all but impossible to walk away from, it is also impossible to shake the lingering memories and longings once the relationship has come to its conclusion.
As a result, you may find yourself having sexual thoughts or incredibly vivid sexual dreams about your twin flame, long after he or she is no longer a part of your physical reality.
Conclusion: Why twin flame sexual energy leaves a lasting impression on you
If you’ve read this article all of the way through, you’ll no doubt have a pretty clear idea of why twin flame sexual chemistry is such a powerful and exhilarating experience.
Once you’ve experienced sex with your twin soul, you’ll never be able to forget it. Sure, you may experience great chemistry with other people both before and after your twin flame relationship, but chances are that you will never in your life be able to recapture the same intensity with anyone else but your twin flame.
The powerful sexual energy that exists between a pair of twin flames is one of the main reasons why twin flame couples often get married or try to make a long-term relationship work. However, twin flame marriages rarely last – in no small part due to the sheer intensity of the connection.
Waving goodbye to twin flame sex can be extremely difficult and makes leaving a twin flame relationship behind a near impossible endeavor, even if every other aspect of the relationship has outlived its purpose or perhaps even turned toxic.
Immediately throwing yourself headfirst into a new sexual relationship isn’t necessarily the best way of getting over your twin flame. In almost every instance, a rebound after a twin flame connection is guaranteed to disappoint. We recommend speaking to a genuine advisor or counsellor instead, to try to work out what the twin flame relationship meant for you, what it taught you, and how you’ll implement its experiences and lessons going forward.
This is probably not the answer you were hoping to hear, but usually the only thing that will have a true healing effect on you after a twin flame relationship breakup.
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Frequently asked questions about twin flame sexual energy
Are twin flames physically attracted to each other?
Twin flames tend to be powerfully attracted to each other both physically, intellectually and spiritually. Their shared attraction is just one manifestation of their intense and deep connection.
There are instances where a pair of twin flames are not physically attracted to each other. In these cases, the attraction is experienced as a sense of instant recognition and curiosity about the other person.
Do twin flames have a lot of sex?
Unless the connection is purely platonic – and it very rarely is – twin flames are going to be wildly sexually attracted to each other and will want to express their sexually energetic bond physically.
If circumstances for some reason don’t allow the twin flame pair to engage in the sexual energy exchange, they both crave, they will simply engage in astral sex instead. In other words, the sexual and spiritual connection between twin souls is so powerful that they are able to share sexual energy and interaction without even physically being in the same room.
In most cases, sexually thinking about the other person is only one of the ways in which twin flames express their amazing intimacy and chemistry. If given half a chance, twin flames will usually consummate the powerful attraction between their two souls by having lots of sex.
Why am I so drawn to my twin flame?
Mutual attraction is the very nature of the twin flame connection.
When you and your twin flame meet, you’ll both feel an instant and inexplicable pull towards each other. This magnetic draw will be both physical, emotional, mental and spiritual in nature. You’ll simply want to merge your two bodies and souls together.