What are the most important signs the universe wants you to be with someone?
After going through a series of bad relationships and heartbreaks, it would not be crazy to ask the universe for some sign before you start dating someone again. Wouldn’t it be amazing if the universe highlights the red flags or drop a stop sign before you waste your time on somebody you would not end up with?
Apparently, there are signs the universe wants you to be with someone! But these signs are not as obvious as we want them to be. Nobody really goes on a date and sees their date showing up with a glowing light around them and think, “this is the one!”
These can be ordinary and subtle signs – you can easily miss them or just simply mistake them for coincidences. So you really have to pay attention to them if you want to make serious progress on your love life.
You see, it is believed that everything in the universe is connected by energy – this force that we give off from ourselves and affects the people around us. Everyone gives off this inner energy that comes from your thoughts and your soul.
And in the love department, if one soul is destined to be connected to another, then that connection will show through some signs the universe wants you to be with someone.
You may have crossed paths with this person before but the timing was not right or you just did not notice. When everything is aligned, the universe will set its foot down and force your paths to meet.
But what kind of signs should you be looking for? Here, we have gathered all the undeniable signs the universe wants you to be with someone and how you can spot and interpret them.
Signs the universe wants you to be with someone
A sense of familiarity
Have you tried meeting someone and suddenly there’s that instant recognition or you just click so well with each other that it feels like you have known each other for a long time?
It’s like you know each other from a past life. It just feels like you already have a connection to this person who has just entered your life. You are already comfortable around each other and there is no awkwardness.
Believe it or not, most of the time, the universe does not start you out with love – especially if it is not time yet. Sometimes they make you hit it off as friends first and that pure friendship builds up to true love. And most of the time, we do not see this.
You can have a string of bad dates and the only thing constant is this guy friend. If you are in this situation, look back and think about how you met this friend. Was there an instant connection that made you close right away? Maybe he’s meant to be something more.
You keep crossing paths with the same person
Ever got the feeling that once you meet someone, that person is suddenly everywhere? You have no idea this person exists but then you met and suddenly you keep seeing them in the mall, in your favorite bar, at a friend’s party, and so on.
Sometimes, you have not even met this person formally yet but because you cross paths frequently, you start smiling to each other because you are now a familiar face. All that is missing is a formal introduction!
Situations like these, makes you stop and think – has this person been in your life all along without you knowing it? Apparently, this should be interpreted as a clear sign that the universe thinks this is the right partner for you.
Now, what if you live in a small town where you run into the same people regularly? In this case, you have to look out for the person who shows up in times of need or who happens to be around when you are in good spirits.
The more you meet under unexpected circumstances, the stronger the sign is. This is not a mere coincidence – this is the universe pushing you towards this person. This is a way of the universe saying that this person is meant to be in your life.
You have crossed paths before without knowing at that time
If the universe wants you to be with someone, there is a huge chance that you have already crossed paths before but you just did not know it. The pieces fall into place later at the right time.
It could be a passing interaction like going to the same theme park when you were kids at the same time and you probably passed each other there. Or something closer like going to the same school together only you were going to different classes or you were in different grades.
Some couples are even lucky to have captured the moment. We have heard stories of a boy’s childhood photo with the girl in the background. Or dating someone that turned out to be your puppy love in a children’s summer camp that you have forgotten about.
You feel secure and at peace with that person
When you are with someone and you find yourself confident in a way that you do not need that person to save you or make you feel complete, that is a sign that you are meant to be.
This may sound cliché but loving yourself is the first step to finding true love. It is important to know who you are and what you want first before you enter a romantic and serious relationship.
Once you are confident in your worth, you will focus more on growing together as a couple instead of what you need from each other to be “complete.” It is as if you have spiritual connections and you just know that you are on the right path.
You’re attracted to something new
We all have that “ideal mate” in our minds with a list of attributes that we think would be perfect for us. And we usually have those standards dictating to us who we should be attracted to.
But have you noticed some people ending up with a person who is not their type? This can also happen to you. Especially if you have had a string of bad relationships. The universe is telling you it is time for a change.
You can keep bumping into this person who is not really your type but you find that this person is always around and you are very comfortable with each other.
Before you know it, you are attracted to someone who is far from your ideal mate. It turns out that you have been running after the wrong ones all along!
Your gut feeling tells you this is good
You know that your gut feeling is there for some reason and it mostly calls out to you to warn you that something is not right. But can a gut feeling tell you that something is right?
Apparently, it can. If you are currently single and looking for a partner, you may get a hunch that something good is about to happen when you meet someone.
When you trust and listen to your gut instincts, it will eventually lead you towards making the best decision. It may not seem like the best at the moment but you will see later on that your gut pushed you in a direction that brought you long-term benefits instead of just short-term gratification.
You dream about the person
For those who have the gift, dreams are the most obvious signs of the universe. Dreams are considered to be a way for your unconscious mind to reveal messages to you that you can not see while you are conscious.
So, if a person is visiting in your dream and it is a romantic one, the universe may be hinting at something and you have to pay attention to it.
If you have been around this person, your mind and body may be picking up on their energy from this person but you are not consciously acknowledging it. So, when you sleep at night and your conscious mind shuts down, your subconscious opens up and starts receiving all these messages.
When you dream about being married or having sex with a person you are not in a relationship with or someone you are not attracted to, it is a sign that the universe wants you to be with this person. Marriage and sex are a high form of intimacy and the universe recognizes that.
Take note that this is a dream different from an infatuation or what others would call sexual fantasies. After all, we can dream about people we have crushes on and fantasize about if we end up with them all the time.
You can tell that it is a sign because the person you are dreaming of is someone you never thought of in that way or someone you never thought you would be involved with.
You have a deep desire to love this particular person
This is a common sign. When you meet someone and suddenly you have this unexplainable desire to get close to them. It happens even when you are still unsure if it is time to start dating again. You suddenly feel like love is beautiful and that you should welcome it into your life again.
It takes someone special to come into your life and unveil some of the deepest desires of your heart. If this person has that effect on you, then it is a sign from the universe that this person is meant to be in your life.
The moment you realize that the desire to find love again is a result of someone’s presence in your life, the more open you will be and the more welcoming you will be to this person.
You think of someone when you describe your soulmate
When you discuss what you think your soulmate would be like, and someone appears in your mind – someone you do not realize you are attracted to – then you should take it as a sign from the universe that this person is meant to mean something to you.
This sign is often ignored because we often think, “wait that can’t be right” but your imagination is actually a powerful tool that the universe can access to speak to you! Just like the way the universe can infiltrate your dreams to give you a message.
And you have to admit, the more often that person comes up in your mind, you eventually start to see them in a different light. Then you will find yourself wondering if it is possible to pursue something romantic with that person. It does not hurt to give it a try.
Love songs play wherever you go
When you find yourself constantly hearing love songs playing everywhere you go, the universe is giving you a sign that it is time to move because you will be meeting your true love any time soon.
Listening to love songs has a therapeutic and psychological effect that makes you feel how nice it is to have love.
When radio stations belt nothing but love songs when you turn the radio on, when you enter a shop and they are playing love songs, when you step on a red light and the car next to you has their stereos blasting a love song, or you hear the same song all the time – it can be a sign.
When this sign happens to you, pay attention. Being surrounded by love songs (and sometimes one particular song) means that you are at a stage where finding and meeting your true love is crucial.
You forgive your past relationships
When you feel like you are ready to forgive the past lovers who have broken your heart, it is a clear indication that the universe wants you to move on and be ready for a better kind of love.
After all, you can not truly experience true love if you are still holding on to feelings of bitterness about the past. Grudges do nothing but make you feel miserable.
And worse, people that hold grudges bring their emotional baggage from the past relationship into their next relationship, and before you know it – you are in another toxic relationship again.
If you have lost interest in who you ex is seeing after you broke up or keeping tabs on the things happening around your ex, it is a good sign that you are ready to move forward and have a new relationship.
People who can forgive can find true love more quickly and can find a better and happier relationship afterward. They are free from the chains of the past and there is nothing holding them back from getting the love that they deserve!
This does not mean that you are not allowed to be hurt, mad, or sad about your past relationship. The universe will give you time to mourn that loss. But the universe will also show you signs that it is time to move on and forgive to prepare you for something better.
You become a better version of yourself because of that person
Now, this can be a tricky sign since we also have people in our lives who are destined to make our lives better but they are just meant to be friends, mentors, and family. Sometimes we are saved by people we are not romantically linked with.
So, experts suggest that you pair this sign with other signs to assume that the universe wants you to be with this person.
Of course, there are times when the sign is clear. Perhaps you are in a dark, depressive phase in your life where friends and family can’t help you. Then suddenly, you meet this person who makes everything easier. Nothing can get clearer than that.
But of course, it is a given fact that ending up with someone who brings out the best in you is an advantage that could lead to a long-lasting relationship.
You start missing the person
When you just started hanging out with someone and you start missing them in the getting to know you stage, it could be a good sign from the universe that you are meant to be with that person.
It’s a constant feeling of longing or an emotional pull and sometimes it can be overwhelming that you feel like crying or going crazy if you have not heard from that person.
Think about it – why should you be missing someone who is not that close to you yet? And why is that feeling intense and consistent? These are not normal feelings. It is a direct sign from the universe telling you that this person is special to you.
So when you start feeling that way, trust the universe and try reaching out to the person so you can spend more time with them. This could lead to the best relationship you will ever have.
Their name pops out frequently in random situations
Another way the universe sends you a sure sign that you are meant to be with someone is when their name comes up frequently.
It could be seeing their name on a signboard, that person has the same name as the main character of a book you are reading at the moment or a movie you are seeing, the person next to you in line has the same name, or you hear their name in a song.
Even if that person has a pretty common name, you do not really get to hear about five Johns or Marys in a day, right?
If a particular name keeps popping up, pay attention! The universe is reminding you that this person exists and that they are meant to play a special role in your life.
You feel at peace
When the universe wants you to be with someone, you will know because you feel serenity – a certain level of peace and you feel calm when you are with that person.
Everything just seems better when you are with them and you are immediately relaxed no matter how bad your day has been. This person makes you feel safe.
This feeling of serenity that you get from this person indicates that there is a special and strong connection between the two of you. This is one of the feelings that you should keep an eye out for if you need a sign that you are meant to be with this person.
You are ready to take risks
It is hard to get back out there when you are nursing a heartbreak. While some would go into serial dating as part of their coping mechanism, most of us would not really take any risk at all.
You know the universe wants you to be with someone when you feel ready to start taking those risks again. When you know you are afraid at some level but you are not letting that stop you from wanting to be more with a certain person.
The universe will find ways to make you feel that it is okay to leave your comfort zone to pursue a bigger purpose.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Can the universe bring soulmates together?
The universe is actively trying to bring out the best opportunities for you – and that includes finding your true love or your soulmate. And yes, you can use the above as soulmate signs to finding the right person.
Of course, you have to go through some ugly frogs before you get to the prince. But that does not mean the universe is not at work. It just means it is not the right time for you to meet your soulmate yet.
And when the timing is right, the universe will start giving you signals to alert you about this big change coming into your life. And if you pay enough attention, you can detect the signs discussed above and this will help you get ready for the love that you were meant to have.
How do I know if I am reading the signs correctly?
It can be confusing to spot out the signs the universe wants you to notice.
Especially if you are not paying attention or if you are paying too much attention to the point of paranoia. How would you know if you are headed to the right direction?
You should work on your intuition when it comes to interpreting these signs that the universe wants you to be with the right person. If you have a high level of awareness, then it is easy to tell whether you are headed towards something good or bad.
For instance, if your heart feels light and you feel happy, it shows that you are on the right track. but if you have a heavy feeling and it feels like your stomach is not feeling right, it is a sign that you are headed towards some form of disaster.
Can I get more than one sign?
Yes! It is most likely that you are going to experience more than one sign happening to you about that special person. The signs happen more frequently and in more ways especially when the universe knows it is about time you finally be together.
If one sign seems vague, look for other signs and see if they work together to tell you if the universe wants this relationship to happen or not.
What if I dream about someone but the dream is complicated?
Some dreams can be too complex or complicated – as if you are watching a movie that makes no sense. When you have difficulties interpreting them, it is worth it to do some extra steps to help you understand them such as seeing a psychic for more clarity.
This is especially if you have the same weird dream all over again – the universe may be telling you something important. A psychic will not only help interpret your dream but they can also do a psychic reading to confirm if you are interpreting these love synchronicity signs correctly.
As you can see, these signs do not require you to be a psychic or have special powers to recognize them. All you have to do is be instinctive and follow what your gut is telling you.
Now that you know the signs the universe wants you to be with someone, all you have to do is just be observant. Soon, you will realize how much these signs are so perfectly timed and placed in your life.
These signs can be happening right now or they may be happening a few years from now. Just be patient and do not lose hope.
All the wrong relationships and bad dates are just stepping stones that you have to go through to lead you to the right one. When the timing is finally right and you finally meet your perfect match, you will understand and realize that your soulmate is worth the wait.